Misogyny at Work: What You Can and Cannot Ignore as a Business Owner

In recent months, several high profile cases of misogyny in the workplace have dominated the media. This is a serious issue that not only harms individuals but also damages the productivity and reputation of organisations. Misogyny, defined as the dislike, contempt for, or ingrained prejudice against women, can manifest in various harmful ways in the workplace.

Key facts at a glance

  • Misogyny and sex discrimination in the workplace are unlawful under the Equality Act 2010. Employers have a legal duty to prevent them, not just to respond when they occur.
  • From October 2024, employers have a proactive duty to prevent sexual harassment. Failure to take reasonable steps creates direct employer liability.
  • Misogynistic behaviour is often normalised in certain workplace cultures. That normalisation does not make it acceptable or lawful.
  • Employers who investigate complaints thoroughly and act consistently are significantly less exposed to tribunal claims than those who deal with issues informally or inconsistently.

What is Workplace Misogyny?

Misogyny in the workplace includes behaviours such as derogatory comments, sexist jokes, objectification, and excluding women from conversations or decision- making processes. These actions reflect a broader societal issue that, unfortunately, often spills over into professional settings.

Examples include:

  • Gendered Assumptions: Inviting a male employee to an after-work function but not his female counterpart, assuming she has greater childcare responsibilities.
  • Exclusion from Social Conversations: Leaving women out of conversations about sports or other traditionally “masculine” topics.
  • Interrupting or Ignoring Female Voices: Talking over female colleagues while listening attentively to male peers.

These actions, even if subtle, create a toxic environment that undermines equality, respect, and the core values of most organisations.

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The Impact of Misogyny in the Workplace

Misogynistic behaviour, whether deliberate or unconscious, can have long lasting and damaging effects on workplace culture. It not only creates barriers for women but also hampers collaboration and productivity. In smaller organisations, where relationships are key, these behaviours can significantly disrupt team dynamics and tarnish the organisation’s reputation.

Despite these detrimental impacts, misogyny often goes unchallenged in workplaces. This silence perpetuates the behaviour, creating an unsafe and uncomfortable environment for female employees. It's essential that both men and women take responsibility for addressing and eliminating such behaviour, fostering a respectful and inclusive atmosphere.

The Role of Employees in Addressing Misogyny

Eliminating misogyny requires collective action. While men have a particular responsibility to reflect on and correct their own behaviours, all staff should feel empowered to speak up when they witness misogynistic behaviour. This doesn’t need to be confrontational but should be a constructive conversation aimed at positive change.

However, research shows that many employees feel uncomfortable addressing issues with peers, especially when it comes to gender-based discrimination. It’s easy to assume someone else will step in, but it is crucial that every individual takes responsibility for creating a respectful environment.

Unconscious Misogyny

One of the challenges in addressing misogyny is that it’s not always intentional. Many people hold unconscious biases that stem from societal conditioning or personal experiences. These biases may lead to outdated assumptions, such as:

  • All women want to have children.
  • Pregnant women will not return to work after childbirth.
  • Women should have primary responsibility for childcare.
  • Women earn less than their male partners.

These assumptions, even when well-meaning, can make women feel undervalued or excluded. For instance, compliments that focus on a woman’s appearance, rather than her professional achievements, can be objectifying and demeaning. Positive feedback should centre on a person’s work performance, not their physical attributes.

Creating a Safe and Respectful Workplace

Words have power, and the wrong choice of words can unintentionally create tension or ill feelings. It’s important for employees at all levels to be mindful of the language they use and think carefully before speaking. A casual remark, even when meant as a joke, can have significant emotional impact.

The Power of Language

For organisations to thrive, it’s essential to cultivate a workplace where women feel heard, valued, and respected. Encouraging work-life balance, regardless of gender, and promoting respect and inclusion are fundamental steps towards building a healthy workplace culture.

Many organisations are already taking strides to improve their work environments by fostering open communication, establishing strong manager employee relationships, and creating safe spaces where staff can express concerns. Staff network groups and early intervention systems are also valuable tools in addressing these issues before they escalate.

How Managers Can Lead by Example

Managers play a critical role in setting the tone for workplace culture. They can lead by example, showing that misogyny will not be tolerated through their own actions and attitudes. Here’s how managers can help eliminate misogynistic behaviours:

  • Model Respectful Behaviour: Be a positive role model for your team by demonstrating respect, inclusivity, and empathy.
  • Promote Organisational Values: Emphasize values centred on respect, personal growth, and work-life balance, rather than aggression, long hours, or ego-driven practices.
  • Address Misogyny: Actively challenge and address misogynistic behaviour when you witness it or when it’s reported by others.
  • Be Consistent: Ensure consistency in addressing complaints, regardless of who the report is about, even if it involves friends or family members within the organisation.

Managers should also reflect on their own behaviours and unconscious biases.

Ask yourself:

  • Who gets my full attention in meetings?
  • Who do I tend to interrupt or tune out?
  • Which employees have my trust, and who must work harder to prove themselves?

This self-reflection is key to ensuring that all employees are treated fairly and with respect.

A Call for Action

While it’s important for employees to enjoy their time at work, it’s equally important that they feel valued for their contributions. Misogyny has no place in the workplace, and when it is identified, it must be addressed immediately before it causes long- term harm.

Every employee is an ambassador for their organisation, and it is the responsibility of all staff to eliminate misogynistic behaviour. By fostering a culture of respect and inclusion, we can create workplaces where everyone, regardless of gender, can thrive.
Misogyny is not just a problem for women – it’s an issue for everyone. And it’s time we all took a stand.

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About the author

Lisa Murphy FCIPD, CEO and Founder of Limelite HR & Learning. Lisa is a multi-award winning HR and leadership expert and Fellow of the CIPD, specialising in strategic HR, inclusion and organisational development. Connect with Lisa on LinkedIn.

FAQS

  • Is misogyny in the workplace illegal?

    Misogynistic behaviour that involves harassment, discrimination, or victimisation on the grounds of sex is unlawful under the Equality Act 2010. From October 2024, employers also have a proactive duty to take reasonable steps to prevent sexual harassment before it occurs. The legal obligation is now preventative, not just reactive.

  • What counts as misogynistic behaviour at work?

    Misogyny in the workplace can include derogatory comments about women, being passed over for opportunities because of gender, being held to different behavioural standards than male colleagues, being spoken over or dismissed in meetings, and sexual harassment or unwanted conduct of a sexual nature. It is often normalised in certain cultures, which does not make it acceptable or lawful.

  • What should I do if I receive a complaint about misogyny at work?

    Investigate promptly, confidentially and with an open mind. Use your grievance procedure. The person accused should not be informed of the complainant’s identity before you are satisfied they cannot influence the process. Document everything. If the complaint has merit, take consistent and proportionate action. Seek HR advice before you start if you are unsure how to proceed.

  • Can Limelite HR support us with a complaint or policy review?

    Yes. We can advise on handling specific complaints, review or update your harassment policies, and support manager training on this topic. Get in touch to find out more.

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