What managers actually need to feel confident
Confidence with probation periods does not come from a policy document. It comes from three things: clarity on what success looks like, a rhythm of regular conversations, and the nerve to say something is not working while there is still time to fix it or end it cleanly.
Give a manager a simple structure and most of the anxiety disappears. That means a 30, 60 and 90 day check in framework, a short template for recording what was discussed, and permission from their own manager to raise concerns early, rather than being told to “give it a bit longer.”
Managers who feel equipped to do this well end up having fewer awkward conversations, not more. They catch issues in week four instead of week twenty.
What a 30, 60 and 90 day framework actually looks like
At 30 days, the conversation is simple: how are you settling in, what has surprised you, and is there anything getting in the way. This is not a performance review. It is a temperature check, and it should feel low stakes for the employee.
At 60 days, the manager should be looking at specific objectives set at the start of the role. Are they being met? If not, is that a training gap, a resourcing problem, or something more fundamental? This is the point where most issues first show themselves clearly.
At 90 days, the manager makes a real decision. Confirm, extend, or end the employment. By this point there should be no surprises on either side, because the previous two conversations already flagged anything that mattered.
Each of these three conversations takes fifteen minutes. Skipping them does not save time. It just moves the same conversation, minus the useful bits, to a much more stressful point further down the line.
Extending probation is not a failure
A lot of managers treat an extension as an admission that they got the hire wrong. It is not. Extending a probation period, done properly and communicated clearly, is one of the most useful tools available.
It buys time to see whether a genuine issue is fixable with the right support, or whether it is fundamental. It also protects the organisation. Confirming someone permanently when doubts still exist creates a far harder problem to unwind later.
The extension itself needs to be handled with care. The employee should understand exactly why, what needs to change, and by when. Vague extensions with no clear plan just delay the same difficult conversation.
The legal side managers get nervous about
This is usually where confidence collapses completely. Managers worry about getting the process wrong, about what rights an employee has during probation, and about whether letting someone go during this period opens the organisation up to a claim.
Employment law in this area has been shifting, and the rules around dismissal during probation are not as simple as “no rights before two years” any more. Guidance from ACAS and Gov.uk is worth checking before any final decision, but the safest approach is never to let a manager make this call alone, without HR guidance and a proper process behind them.
The single biggest factor in whether a probation dismissal holds up is not the decision itself. It is whether there is a written record of what was discussed, when, and what was asked of the employee in response. A manager who can point to three documented check ins and a clear pattern of unmet objectives is in a completely different position to one relying on memory and a gut feeling.
This is where a lot of otherwise capable managers come unstuck. They make the right call, for the right reasons, but cannot evidence any of it. Building the habit of writing things down, even briefly, is one of the cheapest risk reduction measures an organisation can put in place.
A confident manager does not avoid the hard conversation. They just have it three months earlier than an unconfident one would.
Building this into how your managers are developed
This is not really a probation problem. It is a manager capability problem, and probation periods are just where it shows up first.
Our Your Management Toolkit programme is built for exactly this gap. It gives new and existing managers the practical skills to run structured check ins, give direct feedback without it feeling brutal, and know when to pick up the phone to HR before a small issue becomes a big one.
Organisations that invest in this kind of people development spend far less time firefighting probation problems later. The confidence gets built before the pressure arrives, not during it.
What you should do now
- Check whether your managers actually know what to cover in a probation review meeting.
- Put a simple 30, 60 and 90 day check in structure in place, if one does not already exist.
- Make sure every probation conversation gets written down, not just remembered.
- Build in the confidence to raise concerns early, rather than waiting for the deadline to force a decision.
If your managers are quietly avoiding these conversations, that is a development gap worth closing before it costs you. Our retained HR support can also help you review a specific probation decision before it is actioned.
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About the author
Lisa Murphy FCIPD, CEO and Founder at Limelite HR & Learning. Multi-award winning HR and leadership expert and Fellow of the CIPD, specialising in strategic HR, inclusion and organisational development. Connect on LinkedIn.